I rarely weigh in on media issues but after this week's shooting in Arizona, I feel compelled to write about the lack of access to mental health care for many in this country. This is a particularly troubing issue for young adults who may in fact live at home, or on their own, but may be barely functioning and suffering from serious mental illness. Parents will call seeking a "safety net" and are faced with few good alternatives. Parents access to information for this young adult is often limited or restricted. They ask if they should try to have their young adult arrested as a desperate attempt to get help and what would be triggered by such a response. They may be terrified of the costs of an uninsured hospital stay or the reaction of their child to being hospitalized against their will. Some have attempted to hospitalize their severely ill family member only to be told that at that moment they are not a danger to themselves or others. Other parents live in fear of upsetting this person and triggering a violent or unpredictable outburst. Of all the families I work with, this situation is the most difficult to identify a good or easily available solution. So what do I tell parents in this situation. Here are a few thoughts:
- Safety is paramount. Assuring that no one gets hurt is the most important issue.
- Talk to your local police social worker. Determine whether they have crisis intervention trained police who are experienced with intervening with adults with mental illness.
- Mental illness is a medical emergency. Waiting for it to go away will in all likelihood make things worse.
- Seek help from a qualified professional. (e.g. psychiatrist, social worker, psychologist)
- Call NAMI. (National Association of Mental Illness)
- Don't wait if you believe that your young adult is deteriorating. Explore hospitalization.
- Involuntary committment may be an option. It may save your child's life and someone elses.
- Remove firearms from the house and prevent access. ( this increases the risk of suicide and homicide)

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